My brothers and sisters, show no partiality as you adhere to the faith found in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ.

James 2:1

I know a young man who holds a masters degree, has published several articles, and travels around the world. However, when people meet John their first reaction is often to dismiss him. John has cerebral palsy. His body is twisted, he walks with a disjointed gait, and he speaks only with difficulty. Having a conversation requires intense concentration for both parties. Many people don't bother. For those willing to look beneath outward appearance, though, the rewards are well worth the effort. John is engaging, funny, and interesting. His deep faith, his hard-won wisdom, and the passion with which he lives are inspirational beyond expression. It is a privilege to know him.

Meeting John has challenged me to look with fresh eyes at all those with whom I minister. It's so easy to judge by appearances, and to gravitate toward those who are easiest to love. For instance, when I walk into a classroom at the beginning of the year, I instinctively scan the group to get clues about individuals. I notice the popular one, the wallflower, the comic, the rebel, and all the other categories teachers have created over the years. These observations can be helpful as I begin the lesson. But when I pray after the class, I place them before God and ask for help in letting them go. I don't want to put anyone in a box or limit them by a category. I don't want to favor some because I know they will cooperate more and make my job less complicated. Every one in that group is a unique individual, precious to God and worth taking the time to know and to love.

As I get to know these young people, I am often amazed at how readily outward appearances veil much deeper and greater truths. If I am to walk with people in faith I need to see those truths, not the masks. I need to see the pain and insecurity, especially in young people. I need to allow them freedom to break out of their expected roles. When I let go of my preconceptions, I am free to love each person for exactly who they are.

Before you meet with your class the next time, think of the child with whom you have the greatest difficulty. Ask God to help you let go of judgments and preconceptions. Ask for wisdom and insight to see that young person with God's eyes, the eyes of love and compassion. Show no partiality; do not favor those who are easy to love but reach out even more to those who challenge you. Only then can you model the faith found in our glorious Lord Jesus Christ.

Amy Florian